Why is it that almost every partner in couples who come to me for counselling ad coaching want their partner to change? There is an old saying the “Women want their Men to change and Men don’t want their Women to change.” This is very true in part, however in unhappy couples BOTH partners want the other one to change.
Often one or both will acknowledge, perhaps own some of his or her faults contributing to relationship problems, which is a great start. My role then is to open up new understandings of what is driving their individual behaviours and show each partner ways to modify to achieve the optimal outcome – a harmonious contented relationship.
Take a look here as I voice my ponderings asking “What makes an AWESOME partner”?
PS. I recorded in my car during a storm so you need to turn up the volume to hear me clearly.
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