Reasonable or Unreasonable

Every couple who I work with has a degree of unreasonableness going on between them. I take each couple on a journey of different areas of life and ask them to rate other people with a score out of 10 for reasonableness. I mainly choose those in the headlines of the...

Fair and Unfair

This is such a HOT topic for so many couples I see. It’s frequently one of the first points that is made at an initial session. One partner or the other will describe his or her distress in terms of how unfair the other partner is being or has been for years and...